Update - the dealership - Kimber Creek Ford in Pine RIver MN - went ahead and ordered the cord for me and let me know it was $96. I stopped in today and talked to the sales manager and owner and expressed my disappointment with the whole process. I said why would a required item for an option that was paid for not be included. I think they knew I would be voicing my concerns with anyone that would listen. They decided to eat the cost and give me the cord. BTW the cord 8' long and not just a little pigtail.