Well, they worked on my car the whole time I was away. The field service engineer arrived on Monday 4/5 and drove the car with the tech. The FSE confirmed the problem, but they have no fix for now. It's now turned over to the engineers in Dearborn and I'm told I'll have to wait until they arrive at a solution.
I spoke to the the tech when I picked up the car. They replaced the valve body, torque converter, TCM and rear differential with no improvement. Ford told them to stop now. They know what's causing the rumble: the rear differential is disengaging at 40mph, at the same time that the torque converter is locking. This is causing the TCC to pulse. It's "lugging" if you will. They are both convinced that a few lines of programming code will remedy the problem. However, the change will have to be submitted to the EPA, as MPG could be affected. It takes the EPA about 6 weeks to respond and there's no guarantee they'll approve it. If it's approved, then they have to implement it.
So, they had my car for about a month, replaced thousands of dollars worth of parts with no immediate solution and we're without a solution for now. However, both the dealer and Ford have been bending over backwards to make this right. I have nothing but praise for both.
We'll see what happens. You'll all know as soon as I do. In the meantime, if you have the rumble and it bothers you, get it documented. If they come up with a fix, I think it's a safe bet that there will be a TSB. They assure me it's nothing more than an annoyance, but if you're as picky as I am, you can't ignore it.