Ok so i got my wifes car fixed! All they had to do was reprogram blind spot module and after a week of driving seems to be ok. At first after the program my advisor told me part of the bulletin was to pop the glass out of mirror, i opted to have them not pop glass out because they said the glass could break and i'd rather not have my wife driving around with no mirrors. But everything works as designed and she's happy now. Hope this helps anyone else that may have this problem.