I would not expect the car to adapt to the driver. If you have two drivers that would be a problem. Even a single driver changes his style of driving during the day, week or month. Do I alway accelerate to 40 in 8 second. If I am on a highway yes, it I am on a back road I may take 15 seconds. If it raining I drive different. If I am alone in the car the car would accelerate quicker with the same accelerator position. Place 5 big adults in the car would take more movement of the accelerator to accelerate at the same rate.
It would appear that the Transmission may monitor itself to maintain the same shift point as parts wear.